You’re Not Bad at Love. You’re Reliving Your Blueprints


A starter course to help you see the childhood emotional blueprints behind your fights, distance, and defensiveness — so you can stop hurting each other on repeat.


Instant access.


No couple-bashing, no blame — just the truth behind your patterns.


Who This Is For:


This Is for You If…


  • You keep having the same fight, no matter what the topic is
  • One of you tends to chase, over-explain, or push for resolution, and the other tends to shut down, defend, or walk away
  • You feel like you’re walking on eggshells at home
  • You’ve tried communicating better, being nicer, or “staying calm,” and it still blows up
  • You love each other, but you’re scared that if something doesn’t change, one of you will emotionally check out or eventually leave


What You’ll Learn


What You’ll Get Inside the Relationship Emotional Blueprint Map

1. Why You Can’t Stop Having the Same Fight
Why a tiny trigger — a tone, a text, a look, a comment about kids or money — turns into the same painful argument over and over.

2. Two Emotional Blueprints, One Relationship
How each of you learned, in childhood, what love, conflict, and safety mean — and how those different rules collide every time you argue.

3. The Worst Day Cycle in Your Relationship
How Trauma → Fear → Shame → Denial plays out in both of your nervous systems, and why your reactions make perfect sense given what you lived through.

4. The Pursuer, the Distancer & the Race to Blaming
Why one of you pushes for connection, and the other shuts down, and how you end up competing over who’s “more hurt” or “more right” instead of repairing.

5. The Signature Fight Mapping Exercise
A step-by-step guided process to trace your “we always end up here” fight back to its origin and see the emotional rules you each wrote as kids.


What’s Included


  • Welcome Video (Relationship Focus) – how to move through this as a couple or on your own without shaming or blaming
  • Downloadable Relationship Emotional Blueprint Map Workbook (PDF) – prompts and exercises to map your signature fight
  • Guided Exercise Video – Kenny walks you through mapping one of your recurring conflicts back to your childhood blueprints
  • Next Steps Video – clear guidance on how to continue: from insight to actual repair and reconnection


All in a simple, self-paced starter course you can revisit any time.


Why This Is Different


Not Another “Just Communicate Better” Course

You’ve probably tried:
  • Using “I-statements”
  • Taking breaks when things get heated
  • Reading books, going to retreats, or even counseling

But the same shame buttons keep getting pushed, the same roles keep showing up, and the same words come out of your mouths.

That’s because most relationship tools focus on how you talk, not on the blueprint that decides what conflict means to each of you.

This mini-course doesn’t tell you who’s right or wrong, or who needs to “try harder.”
It shows you:
  • The emotional rules each of you learned about love, safety, and conflict
  • How those rules are reenacting your Worst Day Cycles in every big argument
  • Where to begin if you want to fight in a way that leads to repair instead of quiet resentment

This is the map you should have been given at the very start of your relationship, not years into it.



Meet Your Guide, Kenny Weiss


Kenny Weiss is the creator of the Emotional Authenticity Method™, the Worst Day Cycle™, and the Authentic Self Cycle™.

He’s helped thousands of high-functioning, emotionally exhausted couples stop reliving their childhood in their adult relationships by healing their emotional blueprint at the root.


His work is:
  • trauma-informed
  • shame-aware
  • spiritually respectful

No couple-bashing. No spiritual bypass. No fluffy “just communicate better” advice.

Just the emotional truth you were never taught — and a path back to your Authentic Self.


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FAQ


Q: How long does this mini-course take?
A: You can move through the videos in under an hour. The real work is the reflection. Most people spend a few days revisiting the exercises and sitting with what they discover.

Q: Do I need to be in a relationship for this to help?
A: No. This is first and foremost about your blueprint. It will help you understand both how you show up with yourself and how you show up with others.

Q: Is this a replacement for therapy?
A: No. This is an educational and self-reflective tool. It can complement therapy, coaching, or other support by giving you a more precise map to bring into those spaces.


You’re Not Each Other’s Enemy. Your Blueprints Are.


If you’re this tired of hurting each other, it means you’ve both been trying.


You’re closer than you think.


Start by seeing the invisible blueprints running your fights.

You’re Not Each Other’s Enemy. Your Blueprints Are.



If you’re this tired of hurting each other, it means you’ve both been trying.



You’re closer than you think.



Start by seeing the invisible blueprints running your fights.



Want My Help Walking You Through This Together?



If you and your partner are tired of having the same fight on repeat, feeling like roommates instead of teammates, or wondering if your relationship can even be repaired, I want you to know this:



You’re not broken. You’re programmed.


And you don’t have to try to decode that programming alone.


In my private couples coaching, I walk both of you through the Emotional Authenticity Method step-by-step.


We’ll uncover the emotional blueprint each of you brought into the relationship, why your conflicts escalate so quickly, and how to finally create safety, honesty, and connection—without one of you always having to be “the bigger person.”



Together, we’ll work on things like:
  • Breaking the cycle of criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling, and shutdown
  • Turning “issues” into productive, honest conversations that actually bring you closer
  • Rebuilding trust after years of distance, disconnection, or betrayal
  • Learning how to share needs and boundaries without blame, shame, or walking on eggshells
  • Creating a relationship where both of you feel seen, chosen, and emotionally safe
If you’re feeling a pull that it’s time to get real help—not another tip list or communication hack, but live guidance tailored to your story—you can request a private coaching spot with me.



Use the following link to schedule a private consultation with me.

https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350



Spots are limited because I work closely and directly with every couple I take on.



If your gut is saying, “We can’t keep doing it this way,” this is your invitation to take the next step together.

Keep Going: The Next Steps in Your Healing


If this class hit home, don’t stop here—choose one of these three courses now so you don’t slide back into the same pattern you promised yourself you were finally done repeating.

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You’ve started to see the emotional blueprint you picked up in childhood — the role you were trained to play and the Worst Day Cycle™ that keeps pulling you back into the same reactions and choices. But insight alone hasn’t been enough to change how you feel or how you show up day-to-day. The Emotional Authenticity Healing Journey is Tier 2 of my Emotional Authenticity system. In this 12-module, self-paced course, you’ll work the full Emotional Authenticity Method™ at depth: rewiring your childhood blueprint, healing specific Worst Day Cycle patterns, reparenting your Child Self, and retraining your nervous system so your Adult Self can finally lead. You’ll practice real-world boundaries, truth-telling, and self-connection across every area of your life—not just relationships—and walk away with a 90-day plan, somatic tools, and a new internal identity: programmed, not broken… and now actively changing the program.

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